So in essence, it’s OK to cut down on openness in a relationship from 100% to somewhere in the region of 90% or so. And here’s the reason: some people really just can’t handle the truth. It does not make them a bad person or bad partners.
So instead of risking something beautiful over an inconsequential detail that’ll very likely not hurt anyone, just be mum and coast with the love of your life.
Somethings are truly better left unsaid and here are 7 times when it’s OK to not be open with your partner if you don’t feel like it
1. Your S*xual History
For real, not many boyfriends/girlfriends want to hear the step by step narration and graphic details of how you had s*x in a bathroom stall at the mall with your ex or some random babe.
2. Your Body Count
As we already discussed in detail here, for the ladies, only your doctor and gynecologist deserves this information.
3. That Someone At Work [Or Anywhere] Has A Crush On You
Really, this is literally opening the door for problems no one wants. Here’s the thing about revealing this information – you put your partner in a position to have his imagination roam and become paranoid.