This is a frequent scenario in many relationships, and marriages even. Most men out there look for opportunities to hit on the friends of their wives and the lady they are dating, without their partner even knowing.
Most times the woman would see it as her man being friendly, but you ought to watch it, there is a thin line between your man being friendly to your friend and your man actually hitting on her.
So many males out there look for ways to have something with their partner’s friend; is your man among them?
1. ALWAYS ASKS AFTER HER
There is a difference between asking after someone and always asking after someone; while it could be a friendly motive by some men, I bet you it would by a sign of interest by a higher percentage of men. Women get jealous easily and men know that; so for a man to still go beyond his way and frequently ask of just one particular friend of yours then something is wrong somewhere; you actually need to watch it.
2. ALWAYS WANT HER TO JOIN IN DATES
This could be seen as a friendly gesture by you, but more often than not, it isn’t. A date should be mostly between you and your man, but when that friend of yours becomes a regular third party then you need to watch it; it’s either something is happening behind your back or something is about to happen.
3. HE GETS YOU A GIFT AND NEVER FORGETS YOUR FRIEND
Your man getting a gift for your friend isn’t a bad idea but when it’s almost as frequent as he gets for you then you need to start reading behind the lines. He is in a relationship with just you, not a joint relationship with your friend, anything beyond the normal is suspicious.
4. PAYS TOO MUCH ATTENTION TO YOUR FRIEND
Probably when your friend visits and during hangouts; who do your man pay more attention to? If your man pays massive attention to your friend and just little to you then you need to watch it. One thing about men is that they always know what they are doing – ALWAYS.